1. Strictly keep secrets and keep the client's secrets tight-lipped.
2. Do not accept bribes, justice is more important than money.
3. Even if you search hard and find nothing, don't pity your muscles and bones.
4. Do not make preconceived judgments, only conclusive evidence is a fact.
5. Do not be false when writing an investigation report.
6. Don't be moved by personal feelings, and act with reason rather than emotion.
7. Self-defense techniques such as judo and karate must be mastered in one of them.
8. Knowledge of psychology, forensic science, and identification science is also essential.
9. Observation is keen. Moreover, it can scientifically observe the meteorological conditions at the time of the crime and the special situation at the scene, because some evidence will disappear and change over time.
10. Have intuition and see through the truth through an inconspicuous physical evidence.
11. Rely on rich imagination to reason and reproduce various means of committing crimes.
12. Concentration
To become a famous detective, a high degree of concentration is absolutely indispensable, but it is not enough to frown and think at any time, too nervous will leak important things. "Deep thinking" and "hard thinking" are completely different. Only when the necessary materials for reasoning are complete can we enter the homework of "deep thinking". To smoothly switch between these programs, you need to pay attention.
13. Have a keen sense of observation
All criminals try to cover up their crimes and do not leave evidence where anyone can easily obtain it, but usually the facts cannot be completely concealed, and a keen observation can find some clues. The so-called famous detective is nothing more than finding clues hidden at the crime scene or the content of the confession that ordinary people would miss. Therefore, observation is the source of reasoning.
14. Enrich yourself
Most people always think that the solvency and reasoning of famous detectives must rely on intuition and infinite imagination beyond ordinary people, but in fact, this is a great misconception. Of course, intuition is one of the most important factors, but for a famous detective, it is more important that he has a lot of knowledge. Sherlock Holmes has a keen intuition and an excellent mind, but the reason why he became the world's number one detective is why. It is because he has no less knowledge of chemistry, poisons, and anatomy than an expert.
15. Don't forget about curiosity
Curiosity is the energy of a famous detective. Especially when there is a hint of doubt about the crime scene or the actions of key people, it must be pursued to the end. In our daily lives, many things have become taken for granted, and if you are used to this "take it for granted", you will not be able to become a detective and explore the things that make you question.
16. Have a good memory
The so-called complex things must be caused by strange factors and intricate interpersonal relationships. If you can find clues in the complex maze and find out the facts hidden inside, you can become a true detective. To solve a difficult event, Superman's memory is indispensable. You must remember the circumstances at the time of the incident and what the people involved said unintentionally.

In the past 15 years, private detectives have appeared in our country and shown a rapid development trend, and the concept of private detectives has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. The existence of the phenomenon of "detective companies" has become a social problem in China today, although our country has not yet had clear legislation to indicate the legal or illegal status of the detective industry in our country.
But anyone who pays attention to reality and the future has seen that the practice of detective work in our country is still prevalent.
Industry insiders generally call for the state to introduce corresponding laws and regulations as soon as possible to make the detective industry "justified", and many industry alliance meetings organized by the private sector have tried to appeal to and attract the attention and attention of the top level of the state in this way. Its mainstream view is that although it has many shortcomings in the development process, it is still an indispensable practical need of Chinese society.
our country should no longer exclude private detectives, but should clarify the legal status of private detectives, formulate relevant laws and regulations, and establish corresponding management mechanisms, so that our country's private detective industry can embark on a legal, formal and rational path as soon as possible.
The legal problems arising from the development and growth of private detectives in our country are explained and corrected in detail, and the entire legislation of detective companies is prospected.
The legal issues involved in China's private detective industry legislation can be summarized as follows: first, the acceptance of civil evidence obtained in litigation; second, how to regulate the legitimate rights and interests of others because their behavior is "private remedies"; third, how to carry out industry management and personnel training; Fourth, whether private detectives can intervene in criminal investigations of criminal cases.
The author believes that the biggest judicial obstacle is whether private detectives can intervene in the investigation of criminal cases. The involvement of private investigators in the criminal field will cause a rearrangement of the investigation system, which is obviously illegal under the existing criminal procedure legal system. Therefore, at this stage, private detectives can be excluded from investigating in the criminal field, and only private detectives are granted civil investigation powers. However, according to the development law of foreign judicial systems in recent decades, in order to overcome the natural shortcomings of the investigation and prosecution organs in collecting defense evidence under the single-track investigation system, many civil law countries have paid great attention to giving the defense a certain right to investigate and collect evidence when revising their criminal procedure laws. Judicial practice has also proved that although the laws of various countries require state organs exercising investigative and prosecution powers to act objectively when collecting evidence and collect evidence that is beneficial to and unfavorable to criminal suspects, the specific litigation position as an investigative organ determines that the police and procuratorial organs always focus on the collection of prosecution evidence intentionally or unintentionally during investigations, and often do not take into account the evidence that is beneficial to the defense. This may not only lead to acquittal or heavy sentences for misdemeanors, infringing on the legitimate rights and interests of criminal suspects and defendants, but also may allow guilty people to escape the law and harm the interests of society. Referring to the private detective industry in France and Germany, which refer to the civil law system, the evidence collected by private detectives can usually enter the litigation track after being confirmed by the national investigation and prosecution organs. This provides a theoretical and practical reference for our country to construct the legal status of private detectives involved in criminal case investigations, and at least provides us with a template for how to develop the private detective industry under the single-track investigation system. In other words, we allow the development of private detectives under the single-track investigation system, not the "pioneers" of the world, but there are precedents to follow and learn from. It is believed that with the advancement of the construction of the rule of law in our country, it is expected that private detectives will be given the right to investigate criminals.
As for how to carry out industry management and personnel training. The author believes that we can learn from the legislation and management system of the private detective industry in foreign countries, and strengthen the management of the private detective company industry in our country's formulation of ministerial-level administrative rules or administrative regulations, and clarify the scope of practice, pre-approval conditions, registration system, professional discipline and professional ethics norms, and legal responsibilities of China's private detective companies.
The training of private detectives should mainly include the following: employee background checks, civil procedures, civil damages principles, criminal procedures, collection and preservation of evidence, seizure and control of property, fingerprinting techniques, tracking methods, personal identification methods, industrial investigations, insurance investigations, occupational investigations, detective common sense, crime scene mapping, criminal modus operandi classification, mobile and positioning photography, collection of testimony, secret investigations, pre-employment reviews, investigation methods, writing of investigation reports, investigation of store thefts, intelligence gathering, Secret waiting and testifying in court, etc.
At the same time, the establishment of the legislation and management system of China's private detective industry can learn from the management system of China's lawyer industry. Because the management system of China's lawyer industry is relatively perfect, the industry characteristics of the lawyer industry are quite similar to the industry characteristics of the private detective industry. Therefore, China's private detective industry can learn from the management of China's lawyer industry to implement a combination of administrative management and association self-discipline, and the Ministry of Public Security, as the administrative examination and approval agency of China's private detective industry, is responsible for the license approval and annual inspection and review of detective companies (or investigation companies), as well as the license approval and annual inspection review of private detective practice certificates, as well as the exercise of administrative penalty power. The establishment of a national Chinese Detective Association is responsible for the self-discipline management of the industry by the Private Detective Association.
As for how to regulate the behavior of private detectives that are "private remedies", which can easily infringe on the legitimate rights and interests of others. The author believes that private remedies can be divided into two categories based on whether legal liability should be assumed, namely, private remedies involving criminal liability and private remedies without legal liability. Private remedies without legal responsibility are usually statutory, but may also be situations not expressly provided for by law. For example, Article 21 of the Criminal Law stipulates that emergency avoidance is not criminally liable, but this does not mean that there is no civil liability, and Article 129 of the General Principles of the Civil Law stipulates that if damage is caused by emergency avoidance, the person who caused the danger shall bear civil liability. If the danger is caused by natural causes, the emergency avoidant shall not bear civil liability or bear appropriate civil liability; Private remedies involving criminal liability are obviously prohibited by law. To sum up, if the behavior of a private detective infringes on the legitimate rights and interests of others, he should be held criminally or civilly liable according to our country's law, and it can be adjudicated in accordance with the law.
As for the admissibility of civil evidence obtained by private detectives in litigation. For civil evidence, according to our country's "Rules of Evidence" and the "Civil Procedure Law" civil evidence adveillance rules, the parties can of course exercise their power of entrustment with the help of external forces and entrust private detectives to investigate and collect evidence when there is a lack of evidence provided by private forces. As long as it is a private investigation

There are about 3,700 private detective agencies in China, with more than 20,000 employees. Most private detective agencies are named "investigation companies", "affairs investigation centers", "office investigation offices", etc. Main business: business anti-counterfeiting, tracing services, marriage investigations, child behavior guardianship, debt collection, whereabouts investigations, credit investigations, intellectual property investigations, as well as anti-counterfeiting rights protection, economic intelligence investigations, etc.
As a profession, "private detective" has not yet been recognized by our country government. In 1993, the Ministry of Public Security issued a notice prohibiting any unit or individual from opening various forms of private investigation institutes such as civil affairs investigation offices and security affairs investigation offices.
Since the 90s, the market demand for private detectives has been expanding, and the private detective industry has also developed rapidly. However, due to the lack of necessary thresholds and effective supervision, the composition of the industry personnel is chaotic, which in turn hinders the healthy development of the private detective industry.

Men who are prone to extramarital affairs
The following men are more likely or more likely to have an affair (but not that they will definitely have an affair):
1. Rich and powerful men, their money and status will be especially favored by young and beautiful women.
2. Men who are dissatisfied with their wives. If they are dissatisfied with the relationship between husband and wife or their wife's appearance, personality, sex life, etc., they are likely to seek compensation outside the family.
3. The romantic "Don Juan" and the love player. Most of them play with life, play with women, lack a sense of responsibility, and rarely have true love.
4. The boss or boss of the company. They often have the opportunity to meet young women who are worth pursuing or actively pursuing them.
5. Men in their forties and fifties. At this time, men generally have successful careers, a lot of money in their pockets, and seem to be stable and responsible, and have rich social experience, so they have become the fantasy target of many young women. In the face of the "old and yellow" old wives and long-suppressed sex in the family, they are likely to be involved in extramarital affairs.
6. Men whose wives are pregnant and childbearing, they may not be able to withstand temptation.
7. A man with "big feminism" at home. In some parts of modern society and in individual families, strong women are rampant. A man who encounters such a wife has no status or dignity, so he is likely to look for a "gentle lamb" to compensate for it to maintain psychological balance.
8. Men who have experienced unfortunate encounters such as unemployment or demotion will seek sustenance or catharsis through extramarital affairs.
9. Men who pursue romance or seek excitement.
10. White-collar men.
11. Men who travel frequently or for a long time.
12. Men with experienced premarital sex.
13. Some people in the circle of friends have men who have an affair.
14. Men whose parents have had an affair. Research by foreign scholars has found that nine out of ten of people who have extramarital affairs have also experienced extramarital affairs in their parents or grandparents, so they have come to the conclusion that the affair is hereditary. This does not refer to physiological heredity, but psychological heredity. According to analysis, it is mainly because the next generation retaliates or compensates for the previous generation.
Women who are prone to extramarital affairs
Loneliness: Due to work reasons or separation, some husbands are often not with their wives. If such a husband lacks a sense of family responsibility,
Not caring about his wife and not writing letters often to express his longing will inevitably make the relationship between husband and wife tend to be indifferent, making the wife feel lonely and feel that there is no spiritual support. At this time, if she meets the right person of the opposite sex, the wife may lose the ability to resist temptation.
Resentment: Sex life is a very important part of married life.
If the husband neglects to give warmth to his wife because of sexual dysfunction, or because he is busy pursuing his career all day long, or if the husband is greedy for wine and lust outside, he cannot meet his wife's normal physiological needs, over time, it will make the wife resentful, so it is very likely that "red apricots go out of the wall".
Revenge psychology: Some husbands are unfaithful to their wives and cheat on beauty outside, which often leads to unhappy endings once things are exposed. If the consideration of being a wife is not properly considered, you may have a revenge mentality in anger and look for sustenance.
Superiority psychology: Some wives or have higher education than their husbands, or have a superior status to their husbands. If the husband is unwilling to be proactive, it is easy to make the wife "hate iron but not steel" and feel that her husband is not worthy of her. Therefore, the conditions in all aspects are higher than that of a wife with a good husband who has an extramarital affair.
1. Looking for the affection of the past, you have no sexual interest in me, and there are many people who are sexual in me. Women will be married
Before marriage, they are more caring for their men, but when men get married, they often lose their former passion and are lazy about their women every day.
2. It is easier for women to find a partner than men when they cheat on them. Women face more temptations than men in their lives, and any woman with a little beauty should have countless experiences of being entangled by men from before marriage to after marriage.
3. Decompression. Most Chinese women have to go out to work to support their families, and when they come home, they have countless housework and educate their children, often under more pressure than men.
4. Find the feeling of being cared for.
Most women play the role of caregivers in the family, taking care of men and children, but in fact, women have extramarital affairs both psychologically and physically
all need to be taken care of. Don't you see that married women are more likely to age and haggard than women who never marry in their lives?
5. Loneliness in the soul. Women often get married, no longer in same-sex friends, not women value sex over friends, but work and family take up too much time, friendship has become a very luxurious thing, men have to party with friends every now and then, go out to drink, massage and decompress from time to time, and stay at home to watch their children are lonely women.
6. Unmonitored, relatively safe. As soon as a woman gets married, she will immediately have a sense of crisis, and she will strictly watch over her husband intentionally or unintentionally, and will not give him a chance to cheat. Men are often too confident in themselves, thinking that marrying a wife home is like a pig they bring back in the market, and they will never betray themselves. Yu Shang went out to drink and drink with confidence, and sang every night.
7. Economic hygiene. As long as a woman with a little beauty, as long as she uses a little words, a lot of men will come to the door and are willing to serve you. Unlike men, if you want to cheat, you have to spend money to find a young lady and a prostitute, and the cost of taking care of a mistress is even greater, and most men can't afford it.
8. High safety factor. There is a great danger of men cheating, prostitutes are easy to infect venereal diseases, and there are too few women who are willing to be mistresses and ask for nothing, basically extinct.
And women often don't have to worry about this.
9. Physiological advantages. There is another reason why men are most reluctant to listen to, that is, in fact, women's physiological structure is more dominant. Women can easily deal with several men without showing fatigue, and it is actually difficult for men to deal with two women. Women can still satisfy their husbands if they have an affair, while most men have an affair that their wives basically don't need.

Studies have shown that men's lust comes naturally. Some men want to "not fall the red flag at home" but also want "colorful flags fluttering outside", wishing they could step on extramarital affairs
The fragrant grass of the world, even if there are three thousand beauties, still pursue beauty. The pursuit of beauty has become a great pleasure for these men, and in the eyes of some men, women are just clothes, and they take them off when they are worn out; Women are just a meal, and when they get tired of eating, they change their tastes. In this way, the glamorous women outside become a delicious meal that has just been served, making men linger and enjoy it.
In the fierce competition in society, once some men get a good position and get enough money, they begin to think about how to have more women. These men sleep with different women, and these men may not consider each other's feelings, but just want to prove that they are full of masculinity to satisfy their desire to conquer. Seeing one woman after another conquered by him, these men were intoxicated. So in extramarital affairs, these men may be emotional, but more often they are promiscuous.
Some men like to pursue excitement and are restless about their ordinary lives. Marriage is a bondage for some men, but these men cannot break free from this shackles. Engage in stimulating activities while being warm and well-fed. But these men are unwilling to admit that they are looking for flowers and asking willows, but are wrapped in the cloak of beautiful "extramarital affairs". It was this tunic that confused women. The ultimate goal of these men is sex. These men treat love and sex separately, which is called free and easy. These men need to be free and romantic, and the romance of these men is to enjoy sex like a fish in water without being bound by any emotions.
2. Analysis of the root causes of women's extramarital affairs:
Studies have shown that women who have extramarital affairs are born of love, because these women can enjoy sexless love, but without the premise of love, these women will never allow sex to happen. Therefore, once these women's emotions are hurt in the family, these women will sleep in separate beds to compete with men's sexuality. But long-term struggle will make these women even more lonely in their hearts, because these women are born to need love watering. The dull married life makes these women unable to see passion and hear tender words. The tedious housework has shattered these women's dreams. In the days when these women can't stand the lack of love, they will choose extramarital affairs, so these women pursue a kind of love in extramarital affairs.
The dependence of some women in extramarital affairs also determines that she needs to pursue a love in extramarital affairs. Work pressure, financial pressure, and the pressure of trivial matters in life When their husbands cannot communicate, these women need to find someone to listen to her quietly and find emotional sustenance. Men in extramarital affairs happen to be loyal listeners of these women, and they also bring sweet words to comfort these women.

Extramarital affairs are contrary to traditional moral concepts and social morality. It is extremely harmful to individuals, families and society. It is a very troublesome problem of extramarital affairs.
Psychological analysis of cases of extramarital affairs in China shows that the main reasons for the formation of extramarital affairs are as follows:
1. Lonely and monotonous life If married life makes people feel disappointed and unsatisfied, many people will look for other ways or stimulation to achieve psychological satisfaction and balance. For example, married life makes people feel lonely and boring, and the husband and wife lack intimacy and cannot bring each other the joy of life. Especially the kind of couples who have been separated for a long time, when they see other people's couples in pairs, sweet and affectionate, they will inevitably feel lost and unbalanced in their hearts, so it is easy to find other "gentle towns".
There is also a situation that married life is too monotonous, lacking in novelty, every day is the same thing, the same life pattern, at this time the relationship is easy to become dull and boring, and life is not fun. In this case, the novelty and excitement of extramarital affairs are more likely to be highlighted, grabbing people's hearts and making them unable to extricate themselves.
2. Emotional discord The relationship between husband and wife is the foundation of marriage, and if the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, it is easy to lead to various problems in marriage. If there is a long-term lack of communication between husband and wife, then it is easy for them to accept other temptations or seek other emotional comfort to seek emotional compensation.
3. Some couples with different interests are emotionally very good, but after a long time, they find that they do not have common interests, such as: the wife likes to dance, but the husband only likes to play cards; The husband loves literature and art, but the wife has a soft spot for fashion trends; The wife has lofty ideals, but the husband is content with the status quo; The husband works hard, but the wife does not want to make progress. These differences in interests, hobbies, and ambitions make the two less and less common and seriously inconsistent. If you meet a "bosom friend" outside at this time, it is easy to fall into an extramarital relationship.
4. Discord in sex life This is also one of the main reasons for extramarital affairs. If marriage does not have a harmonious sex life, it cannot be maintained. No matter how good the relationship between the two parties is, how many people can live a "platonic love" life for the rest of their lives, and extramarital affairs seem inevitable at this time.
5. It is very difficult to define people who like the new and hate the old, especially in emotional matters, it is easy to see one love another, and in the end they don't know who they love. If this happens before marriage, it may be understandable, but once you get married, you have to be responsible for your lover and family. This kind of thinking of liking the new and hating the old, coupled with the unsatisfactory life after marriage, will change even if the person you marry is the "favorite person".
Because the old lover highlights more of the shortcomings, and the new lover highlights more of the advantages, comparing the advantages of others with the shortcomings of one's own lover, of course, one's lover is much inferior, and the occurrence of extramarital affairs is inevitable.
6. The negative impact of the media Many film and television dramas, books, etc. reflect the phenomenon of extramarital affairs, but the focus of their descriptions is not necessarily the negative effects of extramarital affairs, or the phenomenon of extramarital affairs of celebrities, which makes people not surprised, and they are also copied in their own lives, causing many family and marriage problems.
psychoanalysis
1. It is better to improve your own women's meticulousness, seriousness, and sensitivity, so that they have an advantage over men in some aspects.
But on the other hand, women also have shortcomings such as narrow-mindedness, suspicion, paranoia, perfectionism, and emotional fragility. We often encounter such examples in our psychological counseling clinic: Case: Rong'er stumbled upon a diary of her husband's past while moving, and learned about some things between her husband and his lover before.
Since then, she has interrogated her husband every day about what is going on, and she herself has read the diary many times, memorized it by heart, and wherever she goes, she will recall whether her husband has been here with others in the past, what he has done, and so on. This caused her great pain, she couldn't sleep all night and had no intention of working during the day. Their children are all in elementary school, and Rong'er doesn't want to divorce her husband, but she can't forgive her husband, so she tortures each other like this, which makes her husband also very painful.
Analysis: Although many women do not have such extreme behaviors as above, they are still often suspicious of the loyalty of their husbands or boyfriends and spend a lot of energy on wild thoughts. Not only do they lack trust in each other, but they also lack self-confidence. I often ask them how much time do we really spend thinking about our lives, work and entertainment - is it worth spending so much time thinking about some irrelevant people and things - some people will suddenly realize after hearing this, and feel that they should think more about their own growth, instead of watching their husbands like thieves and torturing themselves to the point of being distracted and haggard, it is better to pay more attention to improving their own quality and improving themselves.
2. Don't let yourself become a broken-mouthed woman Women's attitude towards love will change after marriage, and they unconsciously show that they want to subdue their husbands instead of respecting them.
Newlyweds always can't avoid many quarrels while being sweet, and the focus is on "who has the final say". Case: The Xiaoguan couple has just been married for more than half a year, but they quarrel over some trivial matters. They are all highly educated intellectuals, usually gentle and elegant, but when they quarrel at home, they are different faces, why?
It turned out to be to compete for the "leadership" in the family! The husband used to be free, put things around, and didn't pay much attention to the details, so Xiaoguan couldn't tolerate it, and he must reform him. As soon as her husband came back, Xiaoguan stared at him, thinking that he hadn't washed the dishes for a while, and that he was throwing socks around for a while, and became more and more nagging. The husband feels that home is a place to relax, but as a result, he is more nervous than at work, so he doesn't like to go home more and more, and his wife complains more and more, forming a vicious circle.
3. Women's happiness comes from themselves Women's emotions are rich and easy to be sentimental, so who should women's happiness come from - many women complain that their husbands don't love her enough, are not romantic, inconsiderate, don't understand, and feel very annoyed by themselves.

People's attitude towards extramarital affairs can be seen from the following titles
Changes: adultery - third party - extramarital affairs. The term "adultery" not only has an obvious derogatory connotation, but is also considered a crime at a certain time. And "extramarital affairs" is obviously a neutral word, and it will even be talked about by some people because of some special colors. The result of extramarital affairs is nothing more than two kinds: one is to break the current combination and switch to a new one; The second is to go back after being crazy and noisy. Most urban white-collar workers choose the latter for extramarital affairs, just wanting to get the stimulation of extramarital relationships, but they are too lazy to divorce.
Modern emotional experts generally believe that sex is indispensable for the maintenance and consummation of marriage. "Love is like cement, sex is steel bars, and together it is called concrete." Marriage is first and foremost a necessary procedure for civilized society, and the marriage certificate is an official passport to enter the kingdom of sex, and its existence indicates that the man and woman can freely engage in sexual activity. But it is precisely because of freedom that the spiritual satisfaction and physical pleasure in husband and wife sex gradually decrease, because those beautiful illusions before marriage slowly disappear. As Freud said: "Sex after legal marriage does not adequately compensate for the restriction of premarital sex." Generally speaking, it only allows a few actions that can lead to childbirth between husband and wife to seek satisfaction, because for this reason, a happy sex life after marriage can only last for a few years. "Because of the openness of social concepts, modern people are becoming more and more self-conscious, whether men or women, many have begun to have higher requirements for the quality of sexual life.
Sex in marriage has become monotonous and boring, which is one of the main reasons why modern urban white-collar workers are going to extramarital affairs. Modern emotional morality and sexual morality also bring certain ethical basis to extramarital affairs. In the movie "The Third Party", the wife is faced with an embarrassing logical reasoning: in the face of marriage, the lover is undoubtedly the third party; In the face of feelings, the wife has become an out-and-out third party. This ethical concept of feeling and feelings supremacy allows some people to chase love and sex outside of marriage under the guise of pursuing love. When all beauty cannot withstand the tempering of reality, when all expectations burst in the wind like soap bubbles, life is left with only ordinary reality. The new things that life craves, including the extramarital affairs of modern urbanites, will be as beautiful and colorful as many seemingly beautiful things such as marriage, but fragile and short-lived. After being as gorgeous as soap and as brilliant as fireworks, it returns to plainness and mediocrity. Modern urban white-collar workers are a group of restless and realistic people, and most people's extramarital affairs are just a small episode in married life. After all kinds of variations without a theme, these cheating husbands or wives eventually return to their families and their "married" spouses.

1. Meet an old lover
Laughter is better than crying, and the old is better than the new. A married woman suddenly encounters an old lover who she once loved deeply but finally broke up sadly in an inadvertent place, which is really like a revolutionary being tortured by the enemy. The "new" here refers to marriage in its real state. Reality is only true and shows shortcomings, so you are dissatisfied, nostalgic, and even fantasize about how the emotional journey with no beginning and end can be perfectly and deeply unfolded - this psychological state is undoubtedly the best soil for the flower of romantic encounters to bloom. The old lover came, and so did the contradiction. Critical conditions: (1) The husband just beat the married woman. (2) The old lover is mature and unforgettable. (3) The two had dinner together and drank some wine.
2. Bars are a dangerous place
For men, the bar is a filter or disguise device, which can make a rough man look elegant; For women, bars have become a place where marginal emotions bloom, and there is no doubt that they are a high-incidence area for romantic encounters. From the woman's point of view, the men in the bar often perform the following classic performances: shaking half a glass of wine and pacing from bar to bar with a smile on their faces. Generally do not sit down easily, unless the prey is indeed in hand. Even when talking to a lady who doesn't make it to the selection, be absolutely patient and sincere. The corners of his mouth seem to be smiling, his voice is slightly magnetic, and his eyes are looking forward to a real encounter. Although women are well aware of such performances, it is still easy to fall into them. Women in clubbing don't want to last forever, women in bars are very emotional. There is no need for any reason for such an encounter to unfold. Critical conditions: (1) This man has a Chow Yun-fat-style smile. (2) Or Ken Takakura's indifference. (3) Or Ge You-style humor.
3. Attractive middle-aged men

Attractive middle-aged men are a train that swaggers around, and women who want to travel far away want to ride. Young men are green apples, middle-aged men are red apples, and some hardware is unique to middle-aged men: a certain reputation and social status; be able to calmly and rationally judge the times; Have a nuanced understanding of female psychology. All of this makes women think that middle-aged men are their key dating objects. Especially attractive middle-aged men. Of course, this type of romance is more complicated than other types. Women may be in love, but men are half seawater and half flames. It is almost certain that in these emotional games, intrigue and ignorance are often combined. The last injured person must be a woman, and the last blade bearer must be the middle-aged man with an innocent face. I understand you for the women in the relationship, you must be vigilant. Critical conditions: (1) The woman has lost her father's love since she was a child. (2) Age less than 28 years old. (3) If the man's mouth is hanging or silent, it is golden. (4) And it is best to claim that the current marital status is unsatisfactory.
4. Male boss
Critical conditions: (1) The male boss has just been transferred in. (2) Shave your chin every day. (3) Basically not smiling, there is some mystery. (4) But greet the lady on appropriate occasions.
5. The husband is indifferent or carefree
Such a husband greatly increases the probability of his wife having an affair with him. There is some revenge, some sentimentality, some longing. A phone call, a party, an encounter. It doesn't really matter what kind of means or methods are taken, the important thing is that the wife has to make a difference at this time. The other person does not have to be very attractive, but must be empathetic; not necessarily successful in career, but know how to take care of it; It is not necessary to please women, but it must be single-minded. At this time, a woman looking for a romantic encounter is actually looking for love or a lover in an ideal state. the man who is met by the woman is under pressure; Is such an emotion too heavy? Critical conditions: (1) A woman loves her husband deeply. (2) The husband plays with emotions. (3) An empathetic and dedicated man appeared.
6. Love in a foreign country
In fact, this refers to a kind of romantic encounter that may occur in a specific time and space. For example, the TV series "Broadway 100", such as Qi Shiying and Master Jin in the play. A married man and a woman (lover is not the other), under the same roof in a foreign country, for three years, how can the romantic encounter not happen naturally? Men may be physically lonely than psychological, but women are the opposite. The encounter was carried out in plain sight, and Qi Shiying's female weakness was firmly grasped by the painter Master Jin. Therefore, it is best for women who go abroad to live alone. But is it okay to live alone? Critical conditions: (1) There is an international student party. (2) The time is Mid-Autumn Festival, Lantern Festival or Valentine's Day. (3) Their respective lovers are not around.
7. Bad boy, cool boy, alternative boy
They are all boys with personalities. Such boys and girls like it, and young women and even middle-aged women may also like it. It is said that it is the era of the new bad man. New bad men take some responsibility when they are willing to be responsible, and never wronged themselves when they are unwilling to be responsible. Women feel that such a man is very kind and real, and if they are not good-looking, they may have a desire to be close. The cool boy is Douglas's younger brother or son, but he is more energetic and energetic, and he is the best romantic partner for a woman's "one-night stand" - but it is only suitable for one night, and after a long time, cool will become a paper tiger. Alternative men play with art and marginal feelings. You may have braids or be bald, you may have a job or be unemployed, you may be responsible or not responsible - in this respect there is no difference between an alternative boy and a bad boy. Women meet these personality boys in search of a certain feeling or mood, and the ending is probably impossible to escape the four words "taste it lightly".
Critical conditions: (1) Women who may fall into it have some risk-taking mentality. (2) May be unmarried. (3) may also be married, but life after marriage is as dull as water.