People's attitude towards extramarital affairs can be seen from the following titles
Changes: adultery - third party - extramarital affairs. The term "adultery" not only has an obvious derogatory connotation, but is also considered a crime at a certain time. And "extramarital affairs" is obviously a neutral word, and it will even be talked about by some people because of some special colors. The result of extramarital affairs is nothing more than two kinds: one is to break the current combination and switch to a new one; The second is to go back after being crazy and noisy. Most urban white-collar workers choose the latter for extramarital affairs, just wanting to get the stimulation of extramarital relationships, but they are too lazy to divorce.
Modern emotional experts generally believe that sex is indispensable for the maintenance and consummation of marriage. "Love is like cement, sex is steel bars, and together it is called concrete." Marriage is first and foremost a necessary procedure for civilized society, and the marriage certificate is an official passport to enter the kingdom of sex, and its existence indicates that the man and woman can freely engage in sexual activity. But it is precisely because of freedom that the spiritual satisfaction and physical pleasure in husband and wife sex gradually decrease, because those beautiful illusions before marriage slowly disappear. As Freud said: "Sex after legal marriage does not adequately compensate for the restriction of premarital sex." Generally speaking, it only allows a few actions that can lead to childbirth between husband and wife to seek satisfaction, because for this reason, a happy sex life after marriage can only last for a few years. "Because of the openness of social concepts, modern people are becoming more and more self-conscious, whether men or women, many have begun to have higher requirements for the quality of sexual life.
Sex in marriage has become monotonous and boring, which is one of the main reasons why modern urban white-collar workers are going to extramarital affairs. Modern emotional morality and sexual morality also bring certain ethical basis to extramarital affairs. In the movie "The Third Party", the wife is faced with an embarrassing logical reasoning: in the face of marriage, the lover is undoubtedly the third party; In the face of feelings, the wife has become an out-and-out third party. This ethical concept of feeling and feelings supremacy allows some people to chase love and sex outside of marriage under the guise of pursuing love. When all beauty cannot withstand the tempering of reality, when all expectations burst in the wind like soap bubbles, life is left with only ordinary reality. The new things that life craves, including the extramarital affairs of modern urbanites, will be as beautiful and colorful as many seemingly beautiful things such as marriage, but fragile and short-lived. After being as gorgeous as soap and as brilliant as fireworks, it returns to plainness and mediocrity. Modern urban white-collar workers are a group of restless and realistic people, and most people's extramarital affairs are just a small episode in married life. After all kinds of variations without a theme, these cheating husbands or wives eventually return to their families and their "married" spouses.
