Men who are prone to extramarital affairs
The following men are more likely or more likely to have an affair (but not that they will definitely have an affair):
1. Rich and powerful men, their money and status will be especially favored by young and beautiful women.
2. Men who are dissatisfied with their wives. If they are dissatisfied with the relationship between husband and wife or their wife's appearance, personality, sex life, etc., they are likely to seek compensation outside the family.
3. The romantic "Don Juan" and the love player. Most of them play with life, play with women, lack a sense of responsibility, and rarely have true love.
4. The boss or boss of the company. They often have the opportunity to meet young women who are worth pursuing or actively pursuing them.
5. Men in their forties and fifties. At this time, men generally have successful careers, a lot of money in their pockets, and seem to be stable and responsible, and have rich social experience, so they have become the fantasy target of many young women. In the face of the "old and yellow" old wives and long-suppressed sex in the family, they are likely to be involved in extramarital affairs.
6. Men whose wives are pregnant and childbearing, they may not be able to withstand temptation.
7. A man with "big feminism" at home. In some parts of modern society and in individual families, strong women are rampant. A man who encounters such a wife has no status or dignity, so he is likely to look for a "gentle lamb" to compensate for it to maintain psychological balance.
8. Men who have experienced unfortunate encounters such as unemployment or demotion will seek sustenance or catharsis through extramarital affairs.
9. Men who pursue romance or seek excitement.
10. White-collar men.
11. Men who travel frequently or for a long time.
12. Men with experienced premarital sex.
13. Some people in the circle of friends have men who have an affair.
14. Men whose parents have had an affair. Research by foreign scholars has found that nine out of ten of people who have extramarital affairs have also experienced extramarital affairs in their parents or grandparents, so they have come to the conclusion that the affair is hereditary. This does not refer to physiological heredity, but psychological heredity. According to analysis, it is mainly because the next generation retaliates or compensates for the previous generation.
Women who are prone to extramarital affairs
Loneliness: Due to work reasons or separation, some husbands are often not with their wives. If such a husband lacks a sense of family responsibility,
Not caring about his wife and not writing letters often to express his longing will inevitably make the relationship between husband and wife tend to be indifferent, making the wife feel lonely and feel that there is no spiritual support. At this time, if she meets the right person of the opposite sex, the wife may lose the ability to resist temptation.
Resentment: Sex life is a very important part of married life.
If the husband neglects to give warmth to his wife because of sexual dysfunction, or because he is busy pursuing his career all day long, or if the husband is greedy for wine and lust outside, he cannot meet his wife's normal physiological needs, over time, it will make the wife resentful, so it is very likely that "red apricots go out of the wall".
Revenge psychology: Some husbands are unfaithful to their wives and cheat on beauty outside, which often leads to unhappy endings once things are exposed. If the consideration of being a wife is not properly considered, you may have a revenge mentality in anger and look for sustenance.
Superiority psychology: Some wives or have higher education than their husbands, or have a superior status to their husbands. If the husband is unwilling to be proactive, it is easy to make the wife "hate iron but not steel" and feel that her husband is not worthy of her. Therefore, the conditions in all aspects are higher than that of a wife with a good husband who has an extramarital affair.
1. Looking for the affection of the past, you have no sexual interest in me, and there are many people who are sexual in me. Women will be married
Before marriage, they are more caring for their men, but when men get married, they often lose their former passion and are lazy about their women every day.
2. It is easier for women to find a partner than men when they cheat on them. Women face more temptations than men in their lives, and any woman with a little beauty should have countless experiences of being entangled by men from before marriage to after marriage.
3. Decompression. Most Chinese women have to go out to work to support their families, and when they come home, they have countless housework and educate their children, often under more pressure than men.
4. Find the feeling of being cared for.
Most women play the role of caregivers in the family, taking care of men and children, but in fact, women have extramarital affairs both psychologically and physically
all need to be taken care of. Don't you see that married women are more likely to age and haggard than women who never marry in their lives?
5. Loneliness in the soul. Women often get married, no longer in same-sex friends, not women value sex over friends, but work and family take up too much time, friendship has become a very luxurious thing, men have to party with friends every now and then, go out to drink, massage and decompress from time to time, and stay at home to watch their children are lonely women.
6. Unmonitored, relatively safe. As soon as a woman gets married, she will immediately have a sense of crisis, and she will strictly watch over her husband intentionally or unintentionally, and will not give him a chance to cheat. Men are often too confident in themselves, thinking that marrying a wife home is like a pig they bring back in the market, and they will never betray themselves. Yu Shang went out to drink and drink with confidence, and sang every night.
7. Economic hygiene. As long as a woman with a little beauty, as long as she uses a little words, a lot of men will come to the door and are willing to serve you. Unlike men, if you want to cheat, you have to spend money to find a young lady and a prostitute, and the cost of taking care of a mistress is even greater, and most men can't afford it.
8. High safety factor. There is a great danger of men cheating, prostitutes are easy to infect venereal diseases, and there are too few women who are willing to be mistresses and ask for nothing, basically extinct.
And women often don't have to worry about this.
9. Physiological advantages. There is another reason why men are most reluctant to listen to, that is, in fact, women's physiological structure is more dominant. Women can easily deal with several men without showing fatigue, and it is actually difficult for men to deal with two women. Women can still satisfy their husbands if they have an affair, while most men have an affair that their wives basically don't need.
