People's attitudes towards extramarital affairs can be seen from the following titles: adultery - third party - extramarital affairs. The term "adultery" not only has an obvious derogatory connotation, but is also considered a crime at a certain time. And "extramarital affairs" is obviously a neutral word, and it will even be talked about by some people because of some special colors. The result of extramarital affairs is nothing more than two kinds: one is to break the current combination and switch to a new one; The second is to go back after being crazy and noisy. Most of the urban white-collar workers choose the latter for extramarital affairs, they just want to get the stimulation of extramarital relationships, but they are too lazy to divorce. After Jian Heping got married, the relationship has been very stable, and friends are very envious of their fairy days. But soon after, Ping found out that her husband had another woman. Despite this, Jian's attitude and enthusiasm towards Ping did not change significantly, let alone ask for a divorce. Ping considers herself a gentle and family-oriented wife, and she always can't figure out what she did wrong and where she went wrong. In a heart-to-heart conversation with her husband, the husband said that he was looking for a lover not because his relationship with his wife had broken down, but simply out of boredom with the increasingly dull married life, and wanted to find a little new stimulation outside of his wife, "adding some salt, vinegar, and sesame oil to the water-like life."
Because of the openness of social concepts, modern people are becoming more and more self-conscious, and many of them, whether men or women, have begun to have higher requirements for the quality of their sex life. Sex in marriage has become monotonous and boring, which is one of the main reasons why modern urban white-collar workers are going to extramarital affairs.
Modern emotional morality and sexual morality also bring certain ethical basis to extramarital affairs. In the movie "The Third Party", the wife is faced with an embarrassing logical reasoning: in the face of marriage, the lover is undoubtedly the third party; In the face of feelings, the wife has become an out-and-out third party. This ethical concept of feeling and feelings supremacy allows some people to chase love and sex outside of marriage under the guise of pursuing love.